YES You are correct that I smoheow end up meeting a lot of Alphas but more often than not, I have found that Alpha=A-hole. (Who knows, maybe those guys weren’t doing it right. ) It also depends on how you define Alpha & Beta. I do want a confident man but also one who can be assertive (not aggressive) and considerate not stomp all over the me & any other humans near by. *sigh* A good Beta is hard to find.